It has been awhile again since I have been on my blog. Maybe I should schedule a day each week and sit down and do it. That might happen better.
I am very confused about my 13 year old right now. Nanners has had a boyfriend. Yes I like him. He goes to a different school and I think that is what was making things difficult. She heard a few things and talked it over with him but decided she wanted to go away for a week and think some things out. Well he thought she broke up with him. So then she got mad at him because of this and did break up with him. She went away for the week. Mind you she isn't so innocent in all this either. She kinda likes someone else too. In this week she had a few friends and even her ex bothering her and really making life miserable. I don't know why a 13 year old boy would tell someone that his life just can't go on with out her. I think that is awful. And it made her feel awful. Needless to say they worked out a few things and decided to remain friends. This is great. Well of course "My space" plays a lot into this as well and I guess he already has a girlfriend by the time she came back. The same girl that nanners had heard something about before. I am so confused, don't know what to tell her. There are days when I am not even sure about my own relationship than to be giving her advice. I want to help. I am not sure HOW to help! I know she still cares very much for him and I know that they still talk. Maybe things will have a way of working out.
the other problem that I seem to be having with Nanners is her grades. she has never done so poorly before. I just don't know what other steps to take. She may have to repeat the 8th grade. She doesn't like me talking about her problems with people but i honestly need to get it off my chest before I burst.
Now i sit back in my chair and laugh hysterically I what I have just wrote. Thinking....pondering....realizing.....I still have 3 more girls to go through this with and it just the beginning!!!!!LOL What fun I have to look forward too. Remind me on mothers Day to tell my mom she is the greatest. I don't know how she did it!! My sister and I were a handful!