I know that it has been awhile..a very long while. I am sorry to say. Maybe I wouldn't be so stressed if I had been blogging the last few months. I am, however, going to use this to vent and maybe see if I can even get some advice or even some tips on how to handle some situations.
My husband, just so you all know I do love him, has been laid off since March. I am a stay at home mom and a child care provider. His being at home has put a lot of rifts in our marriage.
I will just list the issues I am having problems with and if you can help...Please do so...
First, His unemployment was lowered...we are a family of 6.
2) He does not want to go back to work doing what he was doing....with the jobs today, how can one be picky???
3) He feels that he is worth more than a company will pay..even when it is more than unemployment.......Really?
4) He is constantly starting a project and not finishing it.
5) He has no idea about the bills, nor do I think he care....I just bounced a rent check to pay cash to keep my car insurance so it wouldn't cancel!!!
6) He yells at the kids to pick up their stuff all the time, but he always has stuff laying out!!! I won't say what I found on my end table..he is just lucky they were clean.
7) He wants to go to school to learn something new...I am all for that..just finish the application!!!
Sorry, but the last couple months at my house has not been a very good picnic. Ia m not saying that everything is his fault...I will own up to my share as well! I know that I am not home in the evenings very much. I have soccer for Nanners or 4h for her and mudd princess,. Those have been my times to veg and think about the situation at hand. I know that i can be easy on the girls and not follow through with discipline. I know I leave a mess too...(I figure I clean everything anyhow...)
So if anyone has any advice or tips on how to handle these issues...Please..Pleae do not hesitate to help!
